Hi Buxom, great to see some goals from you. Just one comment that Lady V once made. If you can see detachment as less about 'being detached from him' (ie: still about him.) And more about re-attaching to your own life, might that help?

Even though three of your goals are about not looking out of the window for him, texting him...they are still about him. Can you reframe most of the goals so they are about you?

Doing well though.... :)x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus