I can carry all the costs on my own and she can walk off into the sunset. I would not chase her for a dime. That's why the $100 is not really an issue.
I'm also wondering if it is a 180 on her part. Is she doing something to get a reaction from me? I know I can't believe in what she says but she is upset that since we separated and since she left this household is thriving. Projects are being completed, we are doing fun things, the house is clean and kinda tidy, and no one - D20, S15, S10 is complaining? No one is wishing mom was her to do...
So what do you do with a spoiled child or a WW - who is playing games with small amounts of $?
She can't borrow against the house without my signature. If she applies for credit - it is hers.
No the 35k in leagal fee's would happen when we need to work out a formal D, division of asset, custody arrangement of children etc.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017