"W, that must be tough news to get. Let me know if you want to talk about it."
She usually bottles this type of stuff up. It's a 180 for me to offer to talk about it. 75% sure she's setting me up for something or trying to back door into this S talk she wants to have though. Won't make me softer to her around the MR stuff though. It's a shame the lies there are making me doubt her honesty on something potentially serious like this.
JR, you've been talking about narcissism and I've been researching a bit. W seemed to have the controlling part of it, but could this fit the part about pulling the focus back on themselves? W has never really been one to do that in the past. Maybe it's something for me to discuss with IC next week.
She did ask for a copy of our family trust documents tonight though. Assuming that's for the L. Haven't touched the letter from her yet. Trying not to decipher why she was dressed so nice when I got home. She did offer me cookies she baked for the girls, though it was through my D. She didn't offer the last batch she made earlier in the week or a couple weeks ago. Still analyzing alot, no detachment currently! More of a numbness building to every escalating situation.
Cadet and AP thank you both for your help earlier with the edits, encouragement, and validation suggestions!
I feel like I'm in a reality tv show lately. Seems like one thing after another. W seems very gung ho on S, but I'm getting some weird/different behavior by not talking to her post blowup on Sunday.
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
