Just how little were you and W face to face before getting M? You said something about long distance dating, and getting M quickly.
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Sandi2 - I'm set on initiating financial and physical separation. Any other tips/suggestions? I've definitely let go and am not (as) afraid of it. I'm not looking for any particular outcome but just see that either one will be better than the torture/humiliation I'm going through now.
Don't threaten or say something you can't take back. Some people have the mistaken idea that getting out of the M will end their pain.
How is she reacting to your plans of separating, or have you told her?
We met maybe half a dozen times in person before getting married and each time we stayed together for at least a few days like a vacation.
Since finding out about the package not being what I thought it was, I have changed plans for now about physical separation. Will talk to a L tomorrow about financial separation. Not set on doing that but want to be informed.
What do you think sandi? Thanks again for your participation.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om
