In all seriousness, I think the thing everyone needs to keep in mind is that there are a lot of different views on all of this, some are more firm than others, some are more soft. The thing is that while a lot of us have simmilar stories and situations, that doesn't mean our spouses are going to respond the same way to the same actions. We have to take all of the advice and views with a grain of salt and figure out what works and what doesn't. I still struggle with a lot of that myself because we still live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, and put on the appearance that nothing is wrong. No one else knows about the PA, my WW won't tell her friends or family, and I'm not going to out her as I know that will push her so far away there won't be a way to reconcile at that point. So I'm struggling with the hard vs soft actions, and trying to figure it out.
As far as a disney character, I think we'd have to have something that evolves through the movie. Starts out as a doormat and becomes a strong confident man or woman by the end of the film.
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)
