ForGump - from what I understand the coaches tend to have a softer approach than the people here on the forums. I've never really been clear on the connection between the "vets" and MWD - I suspect it's deliberately vague but have noticed that some people who reference coaching do seem to get more attention on their threads by certain "vets". Again - I also don't know of the success rates for people in different situations but the material I've been sent seems to emphasize couples counseling and retreats. Most of the people on the forums seem to be in a more hazardous spot with a WW/WH who won't repent.
I've been waffling about contacting MWD's team just to do a once-over of my sitch and give me some insights and guidelines - not sure if that is a service they offer. My IC I know gets a bit frustrated with me because I come looking for answers and not wanting to talk about my feelings.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells