Just how little were you and W face to face before getting M? You said something about long distance dating, and getting M quickly.
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Sandi2 - I'm set on initiating financial and physical separation. Any other tips/suggestions? I've definitely let go and am not (as) afraid of it. I'm not looking for any particular outcome but just see that either one will be better than the torture/humiliation I'm going through now.
Don't threaten or say something you can't take back. Some people have the mistaken idea that getting out of the M will end their pain.
How is she reacting to your plans of separating, or have you told her?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
