I guess a private eye could do that. Also, wouldn't anything you don't need to know kill your hope?

I know the feeling all too well. Hang in there man.

- m and ww in 30s
- s4
- m 11 yrs, t12
-ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM
- bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa
- 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om