My Wife Walked Out 5

[cbtdad]

RSG,
I've been lurking my friend. I'm caught up. Your W is still in what I like to call "confused" mode. She doesn't know what she wants and she is scared. You can't do anything about what she is doing. Let her color her hair bright orange and wear spiked chains. She is going through a period right now that she is totally unsure of what she wants. You also can't control what happens with Trailer Trash! Love the name btw. lol
You know my past situation fairly well it seems like. Remember I didn't even find this website till a few months after BD.
So you have had a head start and you are doing great detaching.
If you want to save your M, then that is key. When you truly detach is when things will change. You answer Mr. Bond about light touching. Don't focus on that. You aren't there. It will just come across as awkward.
The more she notices positive changes about you the more it will make her question things. When she starts to do that, she will then talk about spending "family" time together for S
Then when that is comfortable then pursue light touching.
Patience! Patience! Patience!