Originally Posted By: lt0402


The L thing is rough. Just going through that myself right now. It brings up a bunch of emotions just thinking about starting that whole process. Before I met w/ the first L I sat in the parking lot and had to pinch myself to make sure this was really happening. Completely surreal.

How did you respond to the Ws texts to you? It seems like this stuff is directionless most of the time, but when it moves, it really moves quickly. at least in the beginning of our situations.


lt0402 - I think I pinch myself everyday. You're right I do know the answer. I respond very short and simple. Mainly agree with D's school stuff. Same with cat stuff, "I'd be happy to..." whatever she requested.

was thinking about it...again. I believe W not only wants to "be friends" out of guilt but also because It was like our M except she can date whomever she wants. If we went out, I would pay, I would "fix" whatever she needed, if she asked for a massage, or anything I would do it. Total cake eating. I must keep reminding myself this.

GAL activity for tonight, going to a tequila bar after work with a friend. ready for a marg...or two!


Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
Officially Divorced 11/2017