Just getting caught up with your last couple of weeks of activity. The one thing I noticed is that you're for the most ACTING FINE WITH THINGS JUST AS THEY ARE right now and not pressuring or talking about the M during this time where he appears to be "inching" closer as you say. He's initiating doing things with you on a more consistent basis and thats a good thing, guess you just see where it goes....NO EXPECTATIONS..
Off the record, I'd be a little wary of how accessible you make yourself to him when he throws all these dates at you. Don't always agree to his first choice, and once in awhile, instead of ALWAYS saying.."that sounds fine..", tell him..."you'll get back to him on that...", just to subtly let him know it is not lost on you that he has chosen to physically seperate and things aren't exactly the same because of that choice. Until it becomes clear that he is really "inching" his way back to you, versus "inching" his way towards being comfortable living downtown and spending time back at home whenever he feels like it, you should still maintain a little emotional arms length distance and keep whatever boundaries you have, up and running..
Other than that you're doing great and seeing benefits because you have RELIEVED PRESSURE off of him and he is now free to really think about what he wants..
