Cnut! I think you did the right thing in your situation. You are in a place of unknown and just want some sort of guidance from her on her thoughts. I think its strong of you to share the feelings you did with her. Her response to me is something that says this isn't over. But unless she gives up academy it is over for you. I think that is completely fair at this point. I'm not sure where to go from here, but I do think you took a good step in the right direction either way.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
