Jug - My L advised me to not make any changes until agreed upon in mediation otherwise it will be taken poorly by the courts. With that said I put email alerts on all of our accounts so that I get notified within minutes of almost anything going on. I've also planned on how to shut them down as quickly as possible.

My bank advised me that for a joint account that all they can do is freeze funds.

With that said my WW has her own accounts and has stopped using our joint accounts from the day she moved out although I know she watches what I do there like a hawk.

On BD
H52, W50
T27, M26
S21, D23
BD-9-Mar-16
D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18
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