Hi Coconut, I have a letter that I wrote to my wife but haven't given it to her similar to your text. A mutual friend of ours who has had numerous conversations with my W doesn't think she is still involved with the OM. My W's last words before she moved out where that she didn't enter this marriage to split up. I know at the time it was probably just for her own mind rather than a proper apology. I have been torn about giving it to her and reading you do this has shifted the balance a little again. I am currently working out my plan for our house and her piano, I guess that is what makes me think about giving her the letter. Does she really want this before I move forward with selling the piano and deciding if I sell the house.
I don't have any advice for you, sorry since I feel in similar position as yourself. I also feel my W is similar to yours, hurt by actions and things I have said but still not recognising her part in what is needed to move forward as a family.
I have been away on vacation with the kids for the past 3 weeks, so I do need to read back on your story.
