Rich, just stopping by to check up on your situation and provide some support bud. I completely understand that the in house S thing is a complete downer. Still grinding through that myself, and probably will be for another few months at least.
It sounds like you're in a better spot now that you're getting settled into the new place though. Interesting to hear that your W is the one starting to go through emotional swings. It's amazing our Ws have no perception of what their actions are going to cause at the start of these things.
Not a lot of advice to provide as you are ahead of me in the process, but here to support you. Stay strong and keep pushing where your pushing brother!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18