My Wife Walked Out 5

[lt0402]

Great session with my therapist today. She was very proud of, and impressed with, my boundaries, my enforcement of such, my personal growth and on and on. At the end she left me with "You're doing a good job, I'd just keep on doing as you're doing." I was so proud and confident.

That's awesome to hear RSG! It's amazing how much and IC visit can help to take the edge off and re-affirm what we are doing to make ourselves better people.

I fight the urge, but I text WW about their trip to the pool. Beat around the bush for a little, and the closest she comes to admitting it is "I was facetiming! Not that I owe you an explanation." Lies.

This is the part that's currently killing me as well. It seems like we've both gotten to a place where we can "manage" the stress the OM situation provides. But for some reason it's extremely difficult to deal w/ the constant lying coming out of them. Even w/ the statements from everyone that we should believe none of what W is saying, it's difficult to not want to trust them bc we fully did in the past. I don't remember if I shared this in my thread, but when I told my W that I knew she'd been lying non-stop to me the past 3 months, she just responded w/ "So?!!". That pretty much sums up how messed up their thoughts/morals are right now, for me at least.

With that said, don't let her lies knock you off balance. Maybe it's best to be skeptical of everything she says, that way you're not caught off guard. [censored] to live and communicate that way, but it may be necessary until she proves that she can be trustworthy again.

Hang in there though brother! Like I've said before, you are a prime example of what I'm trying to get to. You're doing great and just need to keep it up!