How to rekindle love? (2)

[Rose888]

Not sure how to link to the first thread from my iPad, and I don't have access to my computer for a couple of days.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2669460#Post2669460

I still owe Andrew and EDF responses, but today is very busy.

ForGump--Keep in mind that people tend to over-report their own contributions and under-report their spouse's contributions, so my estimates could be off. And what I finally realized from reading MWD's SSM book (and others) is that it's not the # that's important. It's whether the spouse feels desired. H could tell that I was often having sex reluctantly, and that made him feel guilty.

Trust me, I was being selfish.