In spite of all she said of not coming with me and daughter, she decided it is ok to tag along and I did not object due to 180 rules. So she was constantly sabotaging everything, if I wanted to go with child somewhere she said no. And child sometimes went with me, but often decided to stay in.
Good part was one week I was without stbxw with my parents in my mother's birth village, quiet, peaceful and yet full of activities, just like it is supposed to be. Also, living again one week with my parents opened my eyes to some of the patterns they have in their marriage, but also some behaviors that I also have, and that could be harmful.
So yeah, self development never ends.
Me38,W36,D9 M 10y, R 14y
10/11/2015 wants to leave 25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans Jan 2016 started DBing Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms Sep 2016 sleeping in same room
