I'm concluding from reading y'alls posts hotness has nothing to do with staying in a M/loving/ whatever you call it. ... I'm beginning to think it doesn't really matter.
It does and doesn't. I find my W very physically attractive and that is something hard to let go in an unraveling marriage. I have lost all objectivity about her, so I don't know if others would call her "hot". All I know is I find her to be hot.
It doesn't seem to matter in the sense that marriage problems afflict all kinds of people. Probably because no matter how hot you are, after the honeymoon phase is over, everybody has to contend with normal marital issues.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
