Today I got Off from any DB I think.... I slipped into being an actual human around her for 20 minutes, just speaking to her like someone who has been asked about an issue they care about for themselves, showing what they learned.
That seems to me, the perfect DB. You just treated her like a regular person, not someone special. That's how I see the best DB.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
