You are all right....got to keep on MY path....in a forward direction. Thanks for all the support...it really means a lot.
Had a great session with my C today. She pointed out my behaviors that may be influencing H's peeking out of the tunnel...and testing the waters with me. She said, the same thing....do NOT move too fast. Let H do all the pursueing, continue to be vague with information. Continue to keep my life busy and working for me. Let him keep making the moves...but she recommended "keep doing what's working." She didn't think I should throw H a curve by cancelling on him last minute... Just don't appear too eager. She said go with him when he offers to do things with or for me....just be casual. Validate, let H continue to open up and trust me....for me to LISTEN more.
So....keep on dbing....thanks for your willingness to hang in there with me.
