I really don't have much for feelings for the ex. Do you Rich?
I cry over the marriage, my failures in it, and for the kids. The roller coaster doesn't end at D, BTW. Just be ready. It does get easier. I think mourning the loss of the marriage is healthy and promotes the healing I need, if I ever get into another relationship.
I was headed into a relationship over the last couple weeks, and it felt good to feel wanted again. However, everyone has baggage, and sometimes that baggage trips up people. Going to be interesting dating down the road. The bags when you're in your 20's are a heck of a lot smaller than they are in your 40's.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)