Look Forward & Ignore the Anger Spew

[rich4j]

Rich, I'm sure STBXW is cracking. She had to sometime. My Ex isn't cracking - she's enjoying winning. In her mind, she has won. Alas, it was a Pyrrhic victory. Time will teach her that lesson - I cannot.
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Trumpet-thx....it's funny in a weird way but she is cracking. It's been a year of hell for me and now she is texting me how she was crying on vacation and is having such a hard time emotionally with the divorce. I guess moving was reality for her. I only texted back validation of her feelings ..yes its hard....and then back to business about our daughter

V & Poschan..thx for the notes of encouragement. I think we are all down the same road and have the same ups and downs.

I know this sounds bad but I am happy she is having such a hard time now. I hope it actually gets harder for her as I really feel she is starting to wake up from her year long fog of wanting to split up and never realizing that it takes 2 to tango and she actually has some skin in the game for why we had our issues.