Andrew and EDF, thank you so much for taking time to post!
This is a very busy week, so it might be a day or two before I have time to respond to them in more detail, but I appreciate your contributions.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16