Thanks Nik and Deb....I definately needed to be reminded that this may be e temporary thing with H.

I WILL continue to still work on detaching....continue on MY forward path. I am seeing my DBing C today....looking forward to her input too.

H called me 2 times yesterday from Seattle....asked me to call him back on the second VM. I did late in the evening. I was out prior to that meeting with my ALPHA group . I told him I was out with some friends.

We just chatted about d, weather, cars, etc. He said he would see me early Sat. morning. I said, ok, fine. I was upbeat, friendly. The only thing I've got to work on are beating him to the punch to cut the phone call off. He beat me this time. . Gotta be more aware of that.

Will catch up with all of you now.

Mooka