Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 3)

[Altair]

I'm concluding from reading y'alls posts hotness has nothing to do with staying in a M/loving/ whatever you call it. Damn it, I'm hot, very fit, take care of myself, very feminine. (and I'm nice).5'3 110lbs, in my 40s, I'm beginning to think it doesn't really matter. Some of my friends have let themselves go and are in marriages where the couple is so in love with each other it is sickening. AndrewP is backing this up with his sweet descriptions of his w (Sorry!)

I see my H for him to get more stuff and I look good. Doesn't change the rush to put more boxes in the car.