Altair, thanks for the female observations! And thanks for stopping by!
I totally see your points about H being so touchy and assuming an attack.
Yes, there are times I feel like we are back in time. When he's having a good day and relaxed I can almost forget the A. Feels good. Who wouldn't want that again? We were best friends and even during the A1 he never wanted to leave. When she cheated on him and she moved on to another victim, that's when it got bad with drinking etc. He pursued her and I got blamed, eventually, for her not coming back to him. Seems like a lifetime ago.


Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again