Thank you ForGump. I do think you are right when you say detach. That is what I need to do. It is hard because I feel like it is a giving up on my marriage. But I know I need to do that for my sanity.
H: 48 W: 41 M: 12 D: 10 1st DB: 3/15/16 2nd DB/S: 4/2/16 - H moved out of bedroom False Reconciliation: 7/17/16 - H moved back into bedroom