Female mind next! One thing I've noticed these men seem to be so bristly, even though it could be months and months after we've stopped certain behaviors, they still steel up for ... nothing. Example: I told my H to have a nice time seeing his friends. He of course was like, "I'm trying to get my head on straight!" I guess he thought I was implying, what, oh, you're just running away, all of his guilt, etc. I was serious, though. I was just saying have a good time, as we were wrapping up chat. Everything is loaded at these points it seems. But Buxom you seem to have this. Not escalating, going and talking to kids, ignoring stewing, it all sounds good. Old habits will take a long time to die! Especially old communication habits, I would think! And, I know, due to DBing, I have changed (180 degrees) and I see H hasn't changed one iota-- which isn't surprising, he's not DBing. Buxom don't you feel like you travel back in time when you spend time with your H?
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016
