Originally Posted By: n2hcke
Still wants sex. ... How does one distance themself emotionally when your H is still there?


There are many of us, me included, who are doing "in-house separation" and wrestle with this question.

"Distancing" is probably not the right concept for you. The mantra you want is ... "detach" or "lighthouse". Both ideas are covered in the first response Cadet drops into every newbie's thread.

The sex question is a hard one. It seems like cake eating to me.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final