Hi Joe! I SO identified with your first post I just read. I, too, came here trying to save a marriage that wasn't going to be saved. Ultimately, though, I consider myself a DB success, because though I didn't manage to save the M, I saved me. So, I TOTALLY get what you are saying. Welcome to this side of things. Wishing you all the best! I am definitely enjoying the fruits of my labor, so to speak, now and I'm sure you will too.
Hello Dawn!! Thank You! I too am enjoying the fruits of my labor, so to speak!! My stress level has changed so much. I used to get major headaches and pain in my neck. Hardly get that anymore. My self confidence has come back. I still had bad days once in awhile. I am stronger inside. I have learned about what I will and won't tolerate.
Kids are doing good!! Still have a good relationship with my stepkids. D13 and S8 are getting ready for school. Both are excited! Stepsons baby is getting big so fast!! I visit with them quite often. Stepson chose not to visit with his mom last time she was up here. Said it was too uncomfortable with her affair partner there. I guess ExW tries to reach out the them once in awhile, but they don't talk to her. Alot of anger and hurt they are going through.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
