Thanks all. I will respond to each of you when I can today.

JRuss, he is in IC but just in the last two weeks. He's dealing with his incest and sexual orientation issues. I've always believed this is the core of his addictions. He also goes to AA but from what he said yesterday, there is unhealthy drama happening there. I'd love to say that while the program is good it's all unhealthy people trying to "help", yet I know enough to keep my mouth shut or I'll be lumped in with the drama. Or dismissed as controlling.

Thanks for the support JRuss!!


Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again