Quote: So all in all....it seems like H might be "piecing"...himself back together...and seeing if our paths have potential to re-connect.
I agree, your H is doing a lot of thinking, sharing his feelings, thoughts with you. Asking about you on top of that, sees how well you're doing. The whole conversation, interaction sounded relaxing and peaceful.
I would just keep doing what you're doing with no expectations (I know hard to do). Don't read too much into what H has been sharing with you, treat his opening up to you like you would if a best friend shared their feelings with you...listen, validate and live YOUR life and be happy for your friend.
IMHO--If you can just leave things alone and don't bring it up to your mom yet. Unless you feel a pressing need to share this with them. Memorial Day isn't that far off either. I don't think you have to pretend, just keep the focus on yourself as you are the important one. Your relationship with your H can be personal and really isn't anyone else's business. I have no idea what kind of R you have with your family, with my family and friends in fact, I share very little about my R with H at this point. Just assure them all that I am doing great and it's a day to day thing with our M.
