Very close to giving up

[ForGump]

Jug:

I find your situation interesting. Your W has a degree from a prestigious college. Is it a useful degree? Also, does she have good life skills? Could she be on her own, and make it? Or is she dependent on you for finances and for running a household in general?

Rushing into marriage ... I think a fair number of people who find themselves here have done that, including myself.