Focus, I think you are doing really well so far. You and I are on a similar timescale. I don't know what is going on in my W's mind either but I think the important thing is to control what you can. Are you in a hurry for a divorce? If not just keep working on what you can. It sounds like your H might be feeling a little guilty. Good he should be so don't worry about him until you have to and keep on making a good life for you.
