LOL, ForGump. Yeah, detaching isn't happening, and suffering is. My happiness graph tracks her moods very closely. Ugh. I think living together but separated is a sure-fire recipe for continued suffering, honestly -- there's just no way to detach from someone (a) you still find wildly attractive, and (b) who's right there, within touching distance, a lot of the time.
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Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
