Had a session today with a different coach. Both emphasized the friend angle and how it's important to detach and be friendly so that it is inviting to reconnect. I agree with that. I probably haven't been as friendly since the package discovery since I was so pissed and hurt. I was not sold on why I shouldn't initiate separation for my sanity/self worth/unwillingness to be in OM. That is the plan. Today's coach recognized sandi2's contributions and didn't say anything against her.
Sandi2 - I'm set on initiating financial and physical separation. Any other tips/suggestions? I've definitely let go and am not (as) afraid of it. I'm not looking for any particular outcome but just see that either one will be better than the torture/humiliation I'm going through now.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om