roist -- I needed to hear that. Thank you.

I know my W had EA's, which ended (I know they did, long story). I think she might have another EA, possibly a PA (unlikely), but I just don't know. I just thought getting the full picture might help decimate the last pocket of hope I harbor in my heart.

But I know that the higher/better road to take is to not need that but just go my own way w/o needing that.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final