Hi Joe! I SO identified with your first post I just read. I, too, came here trying to save a marriage that wasn't going to be saved. Ultimately, though, I consider myself a DB success, because though I didn't manage to save the M, I saved me. So, I TOTALLY get what you are saying. Welcome to this side of things. Wishing you all the best! I am definitely enjoying the fruits of my labor, so to speak, now and I'm sure you will too. smile


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids