Cessna, hoping you come back man. A lot of help to be had here. To echo what doodler said, without our senses of humor, I think we'd of all gone insane long ago.
Seriously though, give us your background and let us into your story. Hard to help when there's no details about your sitch. We're all here to support you!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18