Ah man...missed half my post out in the update above. Where on earth has the edit button gone?
Anyway, it should have read like this:
Guys, I would welcome your thoughts on this.
We're coming up to a year since H walked out/ran away.
Very, very minimal contact since then.
After the initial 'is there anything you want to talk to me about yet' one he sent about a month after he left there have only been a couple of texts (to ask for specific things he needed).
The only time I've seen him was at the industry event we both went to a couple of months ago. No chat or even saying hello there.
I believe the A is in full force.
So we're coming up to a year since he left. Why no mention of D from him? Why is he still paying the mortgage (the house is entirely mine legally)?
I know it's mind reading to try and guess, and I try and stop myself as much as I can from doing that. But I'm honestly completely mystified. What on earth is going on?
