Ok....I've got to update on my rollar-coaster emotional week-end. First of all my internet system was crashing since Fri night...until tonight...Driving me nuts.

I have been my own worst enemy, emotionally the last 2 days. I was spinning around the whole conv with d, regarding H's past vac in Fl....wondering if he went with OW. I was totally torn inside....should I confront? Should I hold back....blah, blah, blah....I kept thinking of James Dobson's advice...to confront...w/o emotions, just stating facts. Then, I thought of Michele's mantra...."never ask about OW" It was bugging the he!! out of me. H kept calling, leaving VM on Sat...but did not ask me to call him. He left another today...seemed frustrated not to get me and asked me to call. I did....he asked where I am all the time. I said, "Oh doing various things...out exercising, with friends, running errands, etc." He seemed to calm down. Then asked about logistics getting together this week to swap cars and catch up. We compared schedules and decided he's ome out Tue late afternoon and we could have dinner too. I