Do you want to join her to the madhouse or do you want to be the stable man that your children desperately need right now?
Oh jeez. Ok. I want to go out for coffee with a woman, this may not even happen. But all of a sudden I'm jeopardizing my *sanity*. That's a little much.
Originally Posted By: Ginger1
Have you thought about being alone, focusing on your kids and sobriety for a while? Getting good with yourself without having to have something else to make you feel better. because when that goes away, it crashes again. Moving on means more than moving on to the next person.
You aren't even considering this woman's feelings.
You just want the next external source that makes you feel good.
Whatever floats your boat. Be careful with the feelings of others.
Good luck.
It's just COFFEE. I'm not talking about moving her in and making her my kids new step mom. And it may not even happen. Everyone is so dramatic in this thread about something I brought up in passing that may not even happen.
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