Hi Rich, vise is right to focus on us and our children, even though we find ourselves thinking about WAW this is normal as we have invested a lot of time with them. I had this notion in my mind that once married it was forever (death do us part) and have to realize what I want vs what I need. My relationship with WAW was not great the last few years but I was willing ot suck it up for the sake of my family and d. We didn't fight or argue it was just a lack...
I grew up in a single parent household so I was determined for d not to have the same, but look where we are...
Things will get better, just keep working on you and taking great care of d.


Me: 48 WAW:40
T:14yr M:12 yr
d8
BD 2/2016
WAW moves out 6/05