We can argue about whether I should even go out for coffee w some woman - or 'whether or not I'm willing to do the WORK'. (what work? sobriety? going to 2 therapists every week? detaching? journaling? taking care of my kids? all CHECK). Nothing is going to bring my wife back, so I'm good with getting the 2x4 in this thread.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
