Originally Posted By: roist
I look forward to hearing your other thoughts. I have often pondered that. I feel like lbs and was. Yes this gives me insight into her world.I see her pain and understand it. This has helped me not be so hard on her.

I imagine her feeling like me and am impressed she is still here. Her reasons are her own, but she has stuck it out. It probably helps that she has mastered detachment!!
More than likely she mastered depression.

I agree that the LBS eventually becomes a WAS.
I sometimes think that when MWD writes, she is talking to the LBS when we really think she is talking to the WAS.

Just my .02


Me-70, D37,S36