Wow, that's a great story. I agree, a light definitely went off when I read that as well. We are all pushing against a rock on a daily basis, working on improving ourselves whether we realize it or not, we get frustrated with the situations we are all in, and we have to keep pushing the rock day after day to become the people we are supposed to be.
Our spouses may never move, they may never return to the person we fell in love with, but it definitely won't happen if we don't keep pushing that rock.
Thanks so much bigybiz, this definitely resonated with me and reminds me that I am doing the right things every day despite moments of frustration and feelings of despair!
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)