Even Michelle talks about raising warning to: ultimate defcon before walking. But she was more so talking in terms of WAS and not LBS.
Thanks again Z
I will respond more later, but I just wanted to acknowledge I've read and have one quick thing to say.
in your situation right now, do you really think there is an actual distinctly between LBS and WAH?
those feeling you are feeling now, your wife likely felt for a long time as she built her walls / creating distancw as you are doing now. you have help, you have knowledge and tools and you are aware.of this dynamic. maybe this is a look into what wife could have gone through idk.
food for thought and maybe some compassion for yourself and for your wife. you know I don't do short well, but really have to go...have meetings like crazy today. I will try ro elaborate my thoughts betteregarding when I get the chance.
I know all you typed is hard and it took real courage to say it out and get it out there. I applaud you!
