I like your post. Firstly I am happy things are going well. Secondly you know the keep going with your own work .

It is great you don't take things for granted, either with H or even within your own changes. That is good as long as you use it to avoid complacency but do not live in fear.

Would you be Willing to comment on what helped you most turn around the situation?I ask for newbies and not so new!


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together