Mostly more of the same here. Things feel really good in most ways. I think if you had shown the me of two years ago a snapshot of our life now, I would think our M was great--possibly the best it's ever been.
I don't trust the image.
I know now that I don't know what is going on in H's head and heart.
However, his actions are great. It looks like my work might be relocating me, and H is actively researching housing and schools. No indication he has any hesitation about making the move with us.
I know I need to stay vigilant with my 180s. Some of them feel natural at this point. Some, I can see slipping a bit, and I need to refocus on them.
I do not take this for granted. Sometimes my head starts worrying about What Ifs, but I work hard to get off that train.
So, life is good, but I know problems can resurface at unexpected moments, so I don't claim that we have made it.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
